3 Steps When Punishment and Rewards Aren’t Working

 
 
 

I work with parents of toddlers to tweens who really love their kids and have tried punishments, time outs, reasoning, and rewards, but nothing is working.

You sense there’s a better way, but you’re just not sure what to do when your child is:

Having tantrums and meltdowns

Hitting

Saying, “I hate you!”

Outright refusing to do what you asked

 

“3 Steps When Punishment and Rewards Aren’t Working” teaches you how to get your child to calm down and get ready for solutions for what’s bothering them, so you can both have more peace and enjoy more loving moments together.

 

Do you feel:

  • Exhausted from all the outbursts.

  • Dread in your stomach that another round of craziness is about to start.

  • Embarrassed that your child melted down in public.

  • Worn out from trying everything with no results.

  • Overwhelmed - like you’re about to lose your mind!

Imagine what it would feel like to calm your child down quickly and feel like the calm, confident and caring parent you want to be.

 

How amazing would it feel to:

  • Know exactly what to say and do when your child acts up.

  • Hear your child telling you what is bothering them, so you can help.

  • Feel calm and confident, even when your child is stressed, upset or angry.

  • Love your child deeply in their most challenging moments.

  • Have more peace and joy in your home and your life.

 

You're the kind of parent who truly cares and is trying hard to raise your children to be happy, kind, confident, resilient and well behaved.

You need strategies that will help your child calm down, communicate, and come back to their fun, sweet, happy self.

That’s exactly why I created “3 Steps When Punishment and Rewards Aren’t Working” to take you from feeling worn out and frustrated to confident you’re taking the right steps to help your child behave and understand you have their best interests at heart.


 

I know firsthand what it’s like to struggle with kids with strong emotions.  I’m a mom, and my kids are 13 and 17. 

One of my kids is very strong willed, and her emotions and behavior were especially intense when she was young.

Yelling, time outs and punishments didn’t get her to behave as well as I wanted, but I didn’t know what else to do.  After learning more and trying out new ways of talking to my child, I finally found ways that worked and made me feel like the parent I wanted to be.

As a certified coach and former leadership trainer, I’ve led over a hundred workshops to help people communicate effectively, feel more calm and confident as parents, and have more peace in their lives.

 

Here’s what you’ll learn in this FREE, one hour masterclass:

  • What’s really causing your child’s behavior, so you can choose the right solution to help them.

  • How to stay calm, so you can respond thoughtfully, rather than react in the moment.

  • The #1 tool that calms your child down, so they can become ready to listen and do what you asked.

 

BONUS: A private coaching mini-session to get your personal questions answered and learn the next step you can take to get your child back on track.

Details provided when you receive the recording.

 

Testimonials:

For those who value their relationship with their kid/s and would like to improve things, I recommend attending Sharon’s 1 hour Zoom classes. Whether you walk away with a few actionable insights or want to pursue getting more personalized help, this is an effective way for a caring mom and/or dad to spend their time. Sharon is knowledgeable and encouraging, her content is high quality, and you will learn about and/or be reminded of helpful parenting principles and techniques in a comfortable online group setting.
— Michael B.
Your class gave me valuable new insights about my child. The real life examples you shared made it easy to see how to use these steps. I’m excited to apply what I learned!
— Liana M.
The value of these tools is that we can apply them in the way that feels right for us and our kids. Your examples were great. Everything you shared was very practical. For better or worse, I had the chance to use this with my son a few days after our class and it worked! I didn’t yell and my son didn’t argue with me. We actually found a solution and so far, he’s doing better. Thank you!
— Cara L.

Select the time that works best for you:

You’ll walk away with more calm and confidence, as well as a proven strategy that will help your kids calm down, and help you feel like the parent you want to be.